Do not lead along hand casually; Do not let go casually more.

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Have you found? The feeling of love always when at the beginning sweetness, feel always that person accompanies one , many a person gang you share , you no longer miss you at last alone , because of at least having a person , love you , can be good together only.

However slowly, as knowledge deepen , you begin to have discovered the shortcoming of opposite side, so problem one receives a appearance, you begin to trouble , are tired , even want to escape , have person to say love as if pick up stone, want to pick up one to suit self always, but do you how to again know when can pick up? She suits you, that you again suit her?

Actually, love should picture the son of grinding stone, perhaps at the time of just picking up , you are not so satisfactory, but please remember , person has elasticity, many matters may change , so long as you have heart, there is courage, pick up unknown stone everywhere with it, is still not as good as will the stone mill that had been possessed by oneself lights to polish , do you begin to have ground? Many persons think that is because feelings is weak, talent will become lazy, actually person is first quilt inertia conquest, sense Duo just change weak slowly.

When certain dine together occasion, have person suggestion eats a little more shrimp for body is good, have the year of which at this time man says suddenly: " decade is former, when my old old woman or my girl friend time, she says that will eat 10 shrimps, I peel 20 give her. Now, if she wants me to help her to peel shrimp shell , is to joke simply, I even help her to clip vegetable , have no interest , still peel shrimp shell. "

No wonder more and more persons want to talk

If everybody does not feel like to give a speech , does not feel like to listen attentively , does not feel like to make pleasant surprise , does not feel like to think for gently, between so husband and wife, again why meeting does not be all right gradually is gradually far and gradually silent? So, please remember , the love of vigour needs appropriately eagerly attentive irrigation , talks about love , should not be even more lazy.

There are a pair of lovers, after agreeing going home from work, go around street with meal, but girl has delayed because of company's meeting, when she emits rain, it is coming late to go to time the minutes more than 30, her boy friend does not say gladly very much: " you are so every time, now, my what mood has also sunk , after me, will not also wait for you again! " instantly, the heart of girl decidedly the collapse of sea wall , she is thinking: Perhaps, they also have no future again.

Is same, when a same place, another is also faced with same situation for lovers, at the time that girl goes to , have also been late for half hour, her boy friend says: " I think that you are surely busy and bad? " follow him to wipe the rainwater on face for girl, and take off overcoat to wear with girl, at this moment, girl flows out tear but being sweet happiness.

Have you realized? Between actually like to hate often think of only in our one! It may be had dismissed but lying in the change of your mood that love will not only know tolerance to want prompt, many matters more. If having personal love on you, it is good that you also feel him, it can select him if that does not represent you.

We say always: " I will seek a person who likes to like very much very , just discuss love. " is however opposite side to ask you , the time of how to just like to like very much at last very much, you can not reply him , because yourself also does not know.

Have not been wrong , we always think that we can find a person who likes to like very much by oneself very much. However afterwards, when we look back upon suddenly, just find that self has been so innocent. If never begining , you how to know that self can like to love that person very much very much? Actually, like very much the feeling liked very , will go through a lot of matters together can just discover afterwards. Everybody hopes to find the hundred-percent companion in own mind, but you have , have thought, when your side has person early pay out quietly for you very for a long time , is that you have not found just.

So, the person who sees side still carefully , he has waited for you perhaps very for a long time. When you love a person, it is just good that love goes to eight point. All expectation and hope have only 7 or 8 point , leave 2 or 3 point to love self. If you still like continuously more, causing heavy pressure very probably to opposite side let the pant of each other however angry come , have lost the delight of love completely.

So, please remember , it is drunk to have wine to do not want to exceed six point, it is full to have meal to do not want to exceed seven point, love a person to do not want to exceed eight point. It is perplexed to like if you are being , downstairs, this words may give you some enlightens perhaps: Loving a person to know will also untie open; The apology of important line also important line thanks; To admit the mistake , will also alter mistake; To think for , will also sympathize with; It is to accept instead of bearing; It is tolerant, instead of connivance; It is to sustain instead of controling; It is to console instead of interrogating; It is to say everything instead of accusing; Is unforgettable instead of forget; Exchanging each other instead of everything confess; It is to pray for quietly for opposite side not is many to opposite side to ask. It may be romantic , but does not waste , does not lead along hand casually , does not let go casually more