This is fact, us not whether accept

" that day calls , has your pa said what with you? " old public have remembered that day suddenly pa error birthday calls matter. " have not also said what, it is some old saying. Ask safety, it is not good to ask to have a good time , ask body condition. Pa hears Ling say , I both am thin and am dark. Have you and my pa said what? " I ask. " is also to ask these, he asks my body book, still very ask that your stomach trouble is how about. " old is public to say. " ask that you are just real concern , ask me , fear merely that my body is not good, wages will be lost " old is public and smiles to say. I also smile. " have asked for leave if I have fallen ill , will deduct wages , if that of a serious illness is more miserable. " he again says. " yes, he worries about that his daughter has no meal to eat " I say. " is that dog bites Lv Dong Bin really, do not know popular feeling , conscienceless thing. " I smile says.

" you do not scold me oh, fact is so " old is public and says. " pass birthday if being my pa, I do not want to hit to not hit, I also have no necessity, is glad for you, for him, it is glad , calls telephone. He blames if wanting to blame to scold to scold , is own anyway. And your pa is different. As if you for me parents. To be glad for me , be glad for them and call telephone, say that is against will. " " talk nonsense " I stare old public a glance. It is always public to see me to smile.

Smile goes back to

I want to say unavoidably in heart: Actually old public say is also truth. Own parents and parents-in-law are different. Though, parents-in-law are old public parents , will like house and crow , may separate first floor after all , and have not gotten along together, those feelings is not natural, not true. And son-in-law and father-in-law mother are also same. The relation between son-in-law and father-in-law mother is counted fortunately, so long as the two of husband and wife has not been hit head broken and bleeding, has not gone up court, though, the relation between this son-in-law and father-in-law mother is psychological and not very joyful , but is still to be all right superficially. What pity is the relation of parents-in-law and daughter-in-law , especially the daughter-in-law relation of old woman, it is that however subtleness very, good time good extremely, at not good time, may scold for trivial matter. That words scolded , that has been hard to say. So as soon as scolding , good words separate one or two month to again restore good relations. Pity is there son. The still good point that can be handled is fooled here , is fooled there , will not be handled , it is miserable, both sides are not persons.

This daughter-in-law relation of old woman, hear a foreigner to say , is also a kind of culture of China , is such is of long standing , it is broad and profound, is such is unfathomable, it is subtle. After all how, we do not know. This Chinese culture, us even some fur glues not go up, can accept some Chinese characters only just. This daughter-in-law of old woman concerns us, also do not know how to handle , since we grandmother and we do not live together, even stay for a year together for some years together in slow-witted not last few days for few days, this few days affirm well , live in peace with each other error, have what not satisfactory also tolerate to put when at heart. As incorrect? However, I think , is long-term together words, will also tolerate first had better to, afterwards, it is clear to say again, injure husband and wife otherwise feelings.

I also do not know , is that this what daughter-in-law of old woman gets along for such disaster. Perhaps, it is communication problem, because at many times, it is to say that person hears person inadvertently to want. At many times, it is the intention of guess opposite side , but not guesses always toward benefit, always go not benefit guess. Because it is not own mother , is not own daughter. Because it is not as basic as feelings. Do not believe always that it is good that opposite side can have for self. Popular feeling does not be measured.

Does common saying say that for 5 years, a big ditch, a little ditch of 3 years and the acting ditch of this daughter-in-law of old woman have few ditches? Parents and offspring have acting ditch , have the foundation of feelings have , moreover this is not as basic as feelings, live together suddenly. Is parents it has what together with offspring to say that what and some minor matters so say on heart that will not pile up in the past. Will not accumulate over a long periodly which day outbreak comes out. My parents-in-law do not live with us together, they cannot depart from hometown , do not want to come. My goes when separating to them telephone newspaper safety, asking safety to them send living cost , let the obedient heart of daughter-in-law. It is good to publicize heart always, it is also good to let own obedient heart, is for home of old man happy is also good. But leting own duty, the color of feelings has amount, perhaps as if old is public to say: This is fact. Us not whether accept.